People have said Ringer wanted his readers to become EGO driven and NARCISSISTIC!

NOT TRUE! Here is his own words:

“It’s also important to understand that the idea of looking out for number one is neither narcissistic nor hedonistic, because focusing on personal happiness does not preclude your being kind, charitable, or civic-minded. Nor does it prevent you from being a team player or building meaningful, enduring relationships. On the contrary, all these, and more, can result in long-term happiness for you.”

So what have got to lose?

NOTHING!

MR Valentine